

Today, women are wanting to have more pull in the world and part of my message is teaching women how to communicate their ideas, perceptions and wisdoms in a way that doesn’t reject men, that doesn’t push men away and this is an art to learning new communications skills.ĭo you believe it’s best for partners to be equal in terms of relationship power status? Women in many cultures have learned to get their way by making everything seem like it’s the man’s idea because he wants to take credit for things, but quite often women have tremendous pull in relationships.

So who has the upper hand in relationships? Well if we said who has an upper hand in the world, we’d see that man particularly have most of the government positions, most of the CEO positions, and so forth but what happens in the home is quite different. The female side of us is controlled by the right side of the brain.Įvery woman and man has a male and female side, we all have a left and right hemisphere of the brain, but for man the left is way more active. Masculinity, whether it be a masculine side of a woman or the masculine side of a man, is the dominant part of us (and controlled by the left side of our brain), that is the part of us that wants to do what’s right, that wants to solve problems. Traditionally, it appears as though men have the upper hand.

In general, who do you think has the upper hand in relationships? Relationships used to be based upon roles so we were looking for a role-mate, now we are looking for a soul mate, They can have their children at an older age, have a job and have a career as well. Men and women are coming closer together, no longer do you have to go away from the family to provide for the family, no longer do women have to give up providing in order to raise a family. What are the most fundamental differences between men and women in relationships?įor thousands of years men and women have adapted their partnership roles: stereotypically men are protective and provide for women, and women are the home-makers.īut haven’t those differences changed today?
